I started wearing a pentacle again earlier this year.
Not always, and not at work. Sometimes, often when running weekend errands, or during work from home days when I know I’ll be at the laundromat during my breaks.
It was both a decision and not a decision. Last year, I bought a stainless steel Hestia symbol necklace from Blessed Be Magick, which I love. It lives up to the “minimalist” line in the shop’s marketing. It was part of a Goddess line that included many other deities, most of which have been sunsetted in favor of more witchy things. I love the way it sits on its chain, and I love how easy it is to pace it back and forth with my fingers along the chain. I love how easy it was to destroy the adjustable part once I knew the length I wanted so it wouldn’t bother the back of my neck.
I most frequently wear Hestia’s symbol because most of the Apollon jewelry out there is, quite frankly, not a great representation of the who-ness of the God. And while I’d love a dainty disc-stamped silver dodecagram with a dainty opening flower at its center to symbolize what is discussed in the Phaedrus and other places in Plato, with the bonus of it already being strongly associated with modern Hellenic Gods’ worship (even if I’m just a polytheist and not siloing myself), nobody has done that. There aren’t pendants of the Gods’ altar constellation, Ara, either, which I think is another fitting symbol for following the Gods — especially considering the Platonic exegetical contrast of what is Titanic. And then there’s the key symbol that most people think is only for Hekate but which was really a symbol of being a priestess in antiquity. So. Hestia, the anchor of all, who is in each of the Gods in that special, anchoring way, is a good choice.
A decision and not a decision.
Based on my experience with loving the pendant from them, I got my mom a Hekate’s Wheel in the same style. The triple Goddess moon pentacle was an impulse purchase because I loved the beauty in it.
It stayed mostly in the box at first while I sorted out a lot of feelings.
I’m not Wiccan. I do not do magic. I had a lot of misgivings and concerns that wearing one would be a false advertisement, a concession along the lines of my resigned acceptance of the pagan label because that’s what scholars will use for us no matter what we say.
Also, why a pentacle and not something like a mjolnir? I’m not in the Northern tradition even though I worship some Goddesses in it, so it would also be false advertising, but at least people would get the praxis sphere (polytheism) correct more frequently?
So.
One, I grew up in mainstream Neopaganism, so if people start asking me questions about ritual praxis in non-initiatory Wicca, I will be able to hold a conversation, which is not something I could do if I were to choose a different high-recognition symbol.
Two, the pentacle is immediately recognizable as a non-Christian symbol, unlike wearing an arrow or lyre or laurel necklace. Religious literacy is too low for most people to even register that deity necklaces are deity necklaces, especially with the pop occulture phenomenon and people wearing deity necklaces for nonspiritual inspiration — which is why I prefer to wear either the silver Hestia symbol necklace or the gold-toned Hestia medallion with her name spelled out in Greek while at work. The pentacle is definitely a mixed bag, of course, because people in the current presidential administration are attempting to start a new Satanic Panic, and I’m sure they’d love talking about “agents of the Devil” infiltrating higher education (I work in it) if given the chance.
Three, it wasn’t exactly a pentacle. It was the triple Goddess symbol with the full moon replaced by a pentacle. It reminded me of the chants and the rituals when I was a child, and it gave a sublunary vibe, and somehow the Goddess focus of it made things a bit better.
Four, it does have some Pythagorean associations, so it’s not all about modern paganism, even if I’m not a Neo-Pythagorean.
Along the way, I also found a simple dodecagram. It’s much larger than the pentacle (about the size of a quarter), lightweight, and layers nicely with a Hestia necklace. Again, I do like the symbolism of the twelve Gods because it makes me think of the Phaedrus. It also now reminds me of certain elements of the Odyssey’s narrative. So. I have some options.
My reasons for wearing flashier polytheistic jewelry in public — not just sticking to the Hestia necklaces or rotating in another deity necklace, as I have ones for Eir and Athene and Hermes — are ultimately related to the power grab of Christian nationalists in America. It’s a way, during a time when reactionary Christianity is moving us in a very Late Antiquity Version II direction, of digging my heels in the sand. I smiled a bit when I held the dodecagram for the first time when the thought, the bigger their crosses are, the bigger my stars, a reference to something from a New York Times article about the conservative cross jewelry boom and its influences, before zeroing out the thought.
That’s another reason why I had a lot of feelings. It unsettles me to leverage religious symbols as the theological equivalent of those interlinked-arm human walls. Protests give me a lot of anxiety. They are chaotic and unpredictable. My nervous system is built for candlelight vigils, which are, interestingly, conducted as interfaith prayer events.
Maybe choosing to wear certain symbols instead or alongside the deity pendants is a form of silent, flameless vigil in and of itself.
Very much agreed…
I wear two pieces of devotional jewelry all the time (apart from showering…or being in some other sort of water like a pool or a hot tub…which doesn’t happen much these days, unfortunately!), but I don’t know if people would generally recognize them as such. The Antinous/Hadrian Janiform pendant “looks like” a religious pendant from a distance, i.e. about the size of a St. Christopher or other such pendant, but most people would not recognize Who is on it even if they were allowed to look closely at it.
If someone is foolish enough to try and start a “religious discussion” with me on the street (i.e. “why aren’t you Christian?” or “there aren’t any valid religions except Christianity,” etc.), they’re going to get an earful…!
As for protests: I know what you mean. While I did the No Kings a few weeks ago, it took a lot out of me, and I wasn’t even there for the full length of it. I don’t think I have too many more of those in me; I certainly can’t do it week after week, or twice a week (as some people I know do…who literally have nothing else to do, and mostly hang out with their friends while they do!).
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I went to a few Planned Parenthood counter-protests in the mid/late-2010s, a few prayer vigils, and a picketing. The picketing and the prayer vigils were predictable. Now that I know I’m autistic, the high anxiety around figuring out what was going on at the protest and knowing that it’s not fixable make me reluctant to go into a fast-paced, unscripted, and unpredictable environment like that again. I felt a lot of pressure to go to the pro-democracy protests on the 14th and would have tried to had I not had prior engagements, though.
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Thank you, Kaye! I have also thought about similar questions about religious jewelry. For me, I wear such jewelry for myself, as a reminder and inspiration. And so I tend to prefer rings and bracelets — for the simple reason that I can see them! I do, however, have some nice talismans of Hermes on chains to wear as necklaces — usually I just have them hanging in my study, again more as reminders and inspiration…
Everybody is different, of course, it’s just I’ve never felt the need to discuss this sort of thing with most people I meet, just as I’m not interested in hearing about their religious beliefs, honestly. Nor am I particularly interested in signalling anything in this regard (at least not in ‘normal’ day to day life. Of course if I was at some kind of Platonic conference, let’s say, I’d be more interested in signalling with the hope of meeting a new friend…)
Having said all that, I am in great sympathy with your thoughts on the power grab of Christian nationalists and protests.
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Thank you so much for sharing your approach to jewelry! It sounds like you have a wonderful set of devotional pieces.
I spent my older childhood and teens in the Bible Belt (Missouri), and my family was outed as Neopagan when I was in middle school, so my current decision is informed by what I experienced during those formative years. I’d probably not pay signaling any mind if all of that hadn’t happened.
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